Life brings all kinds of trials, but one of the heaviest is feeling like you have to carry everything completely on your own. It is exhausting to face difficult challenges when no one seems to understand, or worse, when the people at work or home take your efforts for granted. Having to manage every responsibility yourself without any real support can leave anyone feeling deeply isolated and drained. Or sometimes you do alot of things for ur family, and they take for granted or never appreciate?
We can work with the 3rd Vow of medicine buddha
The Third Great Vow of the Medicine Buddha (Bhaisajyaguru / 药师琉璃光如来) is the vow of infinite material and practical abundance, ensuring that no living being suffers from scarcity, poverty, or lack of life’s necessities
In Buddhist philosophy, this vow recognizes that spiritual peace and mental calm cannot flourish if basic physical needs, safety, and energy are constantly depleted.
The Text of the Third Vow
I vow that in a future life, when I attain supreme enlightenment, I shall—by means of limitless wisdom and skillful means—enable all sentient beings to obtain whatever necessities they require, so that they never experience scarcity, want, or destitution."
HOW TO WORK WITH 3rd Vow of Medicine buddha
1. Deactivating "Survival Panic" (Scarcity Mindset)
The Problem: When responsibilities pile up, the nervous system enters chronic fight-or-flight, tricking you into feeling that resources, time, and energy are running out at any second.
The 3rd Vow's Impact: Medicine Buddha vows that sentient beings will never experience destitution or want. In daily meditation or reflection, this vow acts as an emotional counterweight. It grounds the mind, moving you from chronic scarcity panic into the understanding that your essential needs can and will be supported. So i will quickly chant my zhunti mantra and sometimes just talk to medicine buddha or chant few times:南无药师琉璃光如来。
2. Prioritizing Basic Human Needs Before Spiritual Expectations
The Problem: High-responsibility individuals often feel guilty for being tired or irritable, forcing themselves to "stay positive" while physically exhausted.
The 3rd Vow's Impact: By making material necessities a prerequisite for spiritual growth, the vow validates that rest, food, and physical replenishment are sacred duties, not selfish indulgences. You cannot cultivate patience or clarity on an empty tank. So take care of your needs but not attachment or greed, do what is needed.
3. Shifting Perspective from "Carrying Alone" to Resourcefulness (Upāya)
The Problem: Isolation makes problems seem insurmountable.
The 3rd Vow's Impact: The vow emphasizes using "limitless wisdom and skillful means" (upāya). Rather than bearing heavy weights through brute-force willpower, it encourages looking outward for practical solutions, tools, delegation, and community support.
Applying the 3rd Vow for High-Stress, Heavy-Responsibility Lifestyles
| Situation | Old Reaction (Overload & Worry) | 3rd Vow Application (Skillful Resource Allocation) |
| Morning Overwhelm | Racing through an endless mental to-do list before getting out of bed. (today my mother, father or collegaues issues or children issues or health。。。。 | Ruthless Triage: Select 1–3 non-negotiable items. Trust that non-urgent matters can wait without disaster occurring. And all worries surrender to MEdicine buddha. and do one thing at a time. Write it down dont run the thoughts in ur mind |
| Physical Exhaustion | Skipping meals or sacrificing sleep to finish one more email or chore. | Protect Basic Assets: The body is the vessel. Feed it properly, drink water, and sleep. Rest is productive maintenance, not lost time. In the most difficult time, dont skip meals , food and good nutirients must be absorb. watch ur digestive system do qi gong mini. |
| Feeling Unsupported | Believing "If I don't do it, nobody will" and harboring quiet resentment. And i need to do .... | Active Delegation: Identify small tasks that can be outsourced, automated, or shared, letting go of the need for total control. Example, ur take care of your kids and u do this and that and over do until you tired... step back and think i do what is necessary, our parents family etc they have their own life journey we dont interfere so much |
| Spike in Acute Anxiety | Spiraling into future financial or career catastrophes, health, safety | Grounding Mantra: Pause for 60 seconds, breathe deeply, and recite the short mantra (Tadyathā: Oṃ Bhaiṣajye...) to draw down somatic tension. or chant ZHunti mantra, future, past all cant be obtained. |
A Daily 2-Minute Practice for Busy People
Use rosemary and lemon and peppermint tissue carrywith u thru the day.
Pause for Breath: Put your hand over your heart or on your desk. Take two long, slow inhalations and exhalations. And say Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Visualize Lapis Blue Light: Imagine a gentle, clear deep blue light entering your crown, releasing the tight grip in your jaw, shoulders, and chest.
Repeat Silently 3 Times:
"Tadyathā: Oṃ Bhaiṣajye Bhaiṣajye Mahābhaiṣajya-Samudgate Svāhā."
Anchor the Intention: Remind yourself: "My essential needs are met in this breath. I do not need to solve the entire year today; I only need to handle the next clear step."
OR chant zhunti mantra visualise white light over ur body.
To all my students: rem you are always supported by Heaven and Earth , Open your heart accept heaven help and deep within u is the Buddha energy u are strong one.
12 Vows of Medicine Buddha
1. I vow that my body shall shine as beams of brilliant light on this infinite and boundless world, showering on all beings, getting rid of their ignorance and worries with my teachings. May all beings be like me, with a perfect status and character, upright mind and soul, and finally attaining enlightenment like the Buddha.
2. I vow that my body be like crystal, pure and flawless, radiating rays of splendid light to every corner, brightening up and enlightening all beings with wisdom. With the blessings of compassion, may all beings strengthen their spiritual power and physical energy, so that they could fulfil their dreams in the right track.
3. I vow that I shall grant by means of boundless wisdom, all beings with the inexhaustible things that they require, and relieving them from all pains and guilt resulting from materialistic desires. Although clothing, food, accommodation and transport are essentials, it should be utilised wisely as well. Besides self-consumption, the remaining should be generously shared with the community so that all could live harmoniously together.
4. I vow to lead those who have gone astray back to the path of righteousness. Let them be corrected and returned to the Buddha way for enlightenment.
5. I vow that I shall enable all sentient beings to observe precepts for spiritual purity and moral conduct. Should there be any relapse or violation, they shall be guided for repentance. Provided they truly regret their wrong-doings, and vow for a change with constant prayers and strong faith in the Buddha, they could receive the rays of forgiveness, recover their lost moral and purity.
6. I vow that all beings who are physically disabled or sick in all aspects be blessed with good health, both physically and mentally. All who pays homage to Buddha faithfully will be blessed.
7. I vow to relieve all pain and poverty of the very sick and poor. The sick be cured, the helpless be helped, the poor be assisted.
8. I vow to help women who are undergoing sufferings and tortures and seeking for transformation into men. By hearing my name, paying homage and praying, their wishes would be granted and ultimately attain Buddhahood.
9. I vow to free all beings from evil thoughts and its control. I shall lead them onto the path of light through inculcating them with righteousness and honour so that they will walk the Buddha way.
10. I vow to save prisoners who have genuinely repented and victims of natural disasters. Those who are sincere will be blessed by my supreme powers and be freed from sufferings.
11. I vow to save those who suffer from starvation and those who committed crime to obtain food. If they hear my name and faithfully cherish it, I shall lead them to the advantages of Dharma and favour them with best food and eventually lead a tranquil and happy life.
12. I vow to save those who suffer from poverty, tormented by mosquitoes and wasps day and night. If they come across my name, cherish it with sincerity and practise dharma to strengthen their merits, they will be able to achieve their wishes.